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  1. The above article is very informative for me as I wasn’t aware about the 4 Horsemen and different types of couples

  2. this article give me so much learning and elaborated all the aspect perfectly. first time i meet this horsemen theory first time

  3. Discord between couples owing to the factors mentioned in this article are so very common. Until and unless both partners lay down their apprehensions and pre-conceived notions about each other and look forward to resolving the issue and not playing the blame game by harnessing their horses and employing the above four horsemen, resolution of the discord cannot happen. Only when one understands that we are all human and believe “to err is human” and in case of a disagreement owing to any reason, rather than criticize, be contemptuous, get into a defensive mode and stonewall, if they apply the Gottman therapy and inculcate traits of being gentle, appreciative, taking responsibility and engage in self-soothing, relationships can be salvaged.

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