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Post Marital Counselling Basics: Essential Questions for Both Husband and Wife

March 4, 2024
Posted by: SEETHALAKSHMI SIVAKUMAR
Category: Relationships

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51	Jhanvi Verma	72 %	24 minutes 32 seconds	72 / 100
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53	Mrs TAYYABA FIDA KAYANI	72 %	28 minutes 25 seconds	72 / 100
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74	YOGESH DWIVEDI	69 %	53 minutes 25 seconds	69 / 100
75	Jyoti tanwer	68 %	28 minutes 38 seconds	68 / 100
76	Manisha Agrahari	68 %	30 minutes 29 seconds	68 / 100
77	Maria	68 %	31 minutes 39 seconds	68 / 100
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79	LAKSHMI SHRUTI KARRI	68 %	37 minutes 46 seconds	68 / 100
80	GURMEET KAUR	68 %	38 minutes 5 seconds	68 / 100
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87	Dr Poonam Chablani	67 %	25 minutes 34 seconds	67 / 100
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93	Saumya Ravi Ramsinghani ramsinghanisaumya@gmail.com	67 %	1 hours	67 / 100
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from=Marriage is a beautiful journey that requires constant effort and understanding from both partners. However, even the strongest of relationships can face challenges along the way. This is where post marital counselling comes into play. Post marital counselling is a valuable resource that can help couples navigate through difficulties and strengthen their bond.

The Basics of Post Marital Counselling

Post marital counselling is a form of therapy that focuses on addressing issues that arise after marriage. It provides a safe and supportive environment for couples to communicate, resolve conflicts, and enhance their relationship. The goal of post marital counselling is to help couples understand each other better, improve communication, and build a strong foundation for a lasting marriage.

During post marital counselling sessions, a trained therapist will guide couples through various exercises and discussions. These sessions can be conducted individually or as a couple, depending on the specific needs and preferences of the couple. The therapist will facilitate open and honest conversations, helping both partners express their feelings and concerns.

Now, let’s explore some essential post marital counselling questions that can benefit both the husband and the wife:

Post Marital Counselling Questions for Husband:

What are your expectations from our marriage?
How do you feel about our communication patterns?
What are your thoughts on sharing household responsibilities?
What are your goals and aspirations for the future?
How do you handle stress and conflicts?
What role do you see yourself playing in our relationship?
What are your views on intimacy and physical affection?
How do you express love and appreciation?
What are your thoughts on financial management?
How do you prioritize our relationship amidst other commitments?
What are your expectations regarding parenting, if applicable?
How do you handle disagreements and arguments?
What are your views on personal space and alone time?
How do you envision our retirement years?
What are your thoughts on maintaining individual hobbies and interests?
How do you handle external influences on our relationship?
What are your expectations regarding socializing and spending time with friends?
How do you cope with changes and transitions?
What are your thoughts on forgiveness and moving forward?
How do you handle differences in opinions and values?

Post Marital Counselling Questions for Wife:

What are your expectations from our marriage?
How do you feel about our communication patterns?
What are your thoughts on sharing household responsibilities?
What are your goals and aspirations for the future?
How do you handle stress and conflicts?
What role do you see yourself playing in our relationship?
What are your views on intimacy and physical affection?
How do you express love and appreciation?
What are your thoughts on financial management?
How do you prioritize our relationship amidst other commitments?
What are your expectations regarding parenting, if applicable?
How do you handle disagreements and arguments?
What are your views on personal space and alone time?
How do you envision our retirement years?
What are your thoughts on maintaining individual hobbies and interests?
How do you handle external influences on our relationship?
What are your expectations regarding socializing and spending time with friends?
How do you cope with changes and transitions?
What are your thoughts on forgiveness and moving forward?
How do you handle differences in opinions and values?

These questions are designed to encourage open and honest communication between partners. They can serve as a starting point for meaningful discussions and help identify areas that may need improvement in the relationship. Remember, post marital counselling is a collaborative process, and both partners should actively participate and listen to each other’s perspectives.

Seeking post marital counselling does not indicate weakness or failure in a relationship. On the contrary, it reflects a commitment to growth and a desire to strengthen the bond between partners. With the guidance of a skilled therapist and the willingness to work together, couples can overcome challenges and build a fulfilling and lasting marriage.

4 Comments

Dr. K. Menaka

March 4, 2024 at 3:37 pm Reply

I got clear about Importance of post marital counselling
Premila Binoy

March 4, 2024 at 3:26 pm Reply

The questions given are very useful for people who are new to counselling.
Payal Modi

March 4, 2024 at 1:03 pm Reply

Answering these questions would need lot of introspection
Sakina Ismaeli

March 4, 2024 at 1:01 pm Reply

Good article. Thank you